Sex, the physical way in which two individuals connect on a deeper level.
The most intimate way to connect with another human being.
The church regulates it as if it owns the rights to it.
As if it invented it and therefore owns the trademark to it.
Why should an outside authority assert what two individuals agree on, in their private space?
To what two individuals agree to participate in, out of their free will?
The medical community exorcise it that it is almost impossible to enjoy it without remembering how unsafe and deadly it can be.
When did it stop being a contract that two people enter into emotionally?
A contract bound by trust and truthfulness.
A contract born of a strong emotional bond between two or three people, if they so choose.
A contract born of emotional transparency, whose foundation is love and emotional vulnerability?
How did it become so perverse?
How did it become just an act that two bored, lonely, miserable or drunk just engage in to ease their pain?
The psychopaths use it as a weapon to control others,
They assert their will over others by pretending to love them and when they have lured them into their net, they abandon them like a plague, withdraw their attention, leaving them pining for their hollow love.
I am wondering when did something so sacred, so beautiful, which the rest of the human race was entitled to became for a select few, with clauses and conditions met before anyone can indulge in it.
When did it become a state’s problem?
When did it transcend the bedroom, a sacred space which two people share?
When did the public opinion determine the quality or quantity of it?
When and how is it done did it become a matter of public opinion and debate?
Who and how frequent one engages in it did it become a public opinion?
I am praying for a time when it was so simple to engage in this sacred act.
An act driven by emotional connection more than anything else.
When the bond of trust and the depth of love determined its quality.
When looks and figure, even muscles for that matter, didn’t factor much, but were an after thought.
When the soul connection was the main factor.
I long for that time.
The time past.